No Fats, No Fems: A Guide to Queer Empathy and Unpacking PrejudiceHarperOne Paperback OriginalThe essential modern guide for understanding what divides us and the path to building a better communitya revolutionary call to arms for embracing kindness and empathy, from queer advocate and sex educator Max Hovey. Exclusionary and derogatory rhetoric in online spaces like no fats, no fems is often an unfortunate reality for many queer people and speaks to a larger issue at handbut it doesnt have to be this way. Max Hovey